Hi Kiara!
This is Andrew and I am a regular visitor to your site. I love, how genuinely you take out time and reply to each and every one. So, tell me one thing what do you do if you are messed up in a relationship?
I will be waiting for you to answer this.
Thank you!
Hi Andrew,
First of all, thank you so much for your message. I am overwhelmed by this and secondly, to answer your question, well, you’ve done a lot if you accept you’re the one who damaged it, but it’s not finished yet.
Take this time to reflect on the relationship and attempt to learn everything you can from it so you know what you want to keep for the next one and, more significantly, what you don’t want or need to work on.
Remember not to berate or punish yourself for things you didn’t know when you didn’t know them; no one is born knowing, as they say in my country. Furthermore, partnerships are a shared duty, so blaming one party is usually erroneous, especially in severe cases, I would suggest. At all costs, avoid victimizing yourself. Accept responsibility, learn, and move on. Best wishes.
Thank you!
Kiara
