Wedding planning can be challenging for anyone, but for LGBTQ couples it can be especially difficult. Taking the extra steps to ensure the wedding is not only organized but celebrated in a way that is true to the couple’s identity, is essential.
A welcoming LGBTQ wedding entails many factors to ensure a couple feels comfortable and acknowledged. We’ve compiled a list of tips on how to make your wedding welcoming to all your guests.
1. Make sure the venue is LGBTQ-friendly
When selecting a wedding venue, it is important to choose one that welcomes the LGBTQ community. A venue must have experience hosting LGBTQ weddings and be committed to inclusivity. Ask other LGBTQ couples for recommendations for LGBTQ-friendly wedding venues in your area. Check the venue’s policies and procedures before you book. If they have any LGBTQ-specific resources or staff, inquire. You should feel comfortable and respected when you visit the venue.
2. Make sure your vendors are LGBTQ-friendly
Aside from the wedding venue, it’s important to hire LGBTQ-friendly vendors, such as the wedding planner, photographer, caterer, and other vendors. Ask vendors how they deal with LGBTQ couples.
3. Mind your language
Being mindful of language is important when planning an LGBTQ wedding. The language used in invitations, programs, and speeches should be gender-neutral. Using outdated terms such as “bride and groom” or assuming the gender of the couple’s partner is also important. Instead, use gender-neutral terms such as “partner,” “spouse,” or “significant other.”
4. Dress code for the wedding party
If you are planning a welcoming LGBTQ wedding, make sure the wedding party outfits are appropriate. Clothing is traditionally chosen based on the couple’s gender, but this might not be appropriate for LGBTQ weddings. Make sure the couple is comfortable and confident on their wedding day by discussing attire options with them.
5. Embrace LGBTQ symbols and traditions
It is a great way to acknowledge and include the LGBTQ couple at the wedding by incorporating LGBTQ symbols and traditions. Incorporating the rainbow flag into the decor or incorporating LGBTQ wedding traditions, such as breaking glass and jumping on the broom, could be part of this.
6. Make sure you respect the couple’s wishes
Respecting the couple’s wishes is the most important factor in planning a welcoming LGBTQ wedding. In order to ensure that the wedding reflects the couple and their love for each other, it is necessary to communicate openly with them and ask for their input throughout the planning process.
To summarize, planning a welcoming LGBTQ wedding requires attention to detail and commitment to inclusivity. A welcoming LGBTQ wedding should be a celebration of love and acceptance. It should be a place where everyone feels included and respected, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Above all, it should be a space that celebrates the couple’s love for each other.
