Hi Kiara!
I hope you are doing great. Last time when I was having a word with my wife, she mentioned that she speaks to you about her problems. Hence, I thought of writing to you. Can you tell me how will a married life is happy? I would be waiting for your answer on this.
Thank you!
Joseph
Hi Joseph!
I am doing fine. I hope Lisa is in good health. Well, I asked them the same question to my husband and he gave me a very smart answer. He shares that he keeps me as his priority. So, we have been married for the last 5 years and there is one thing he religiously follows. He treats me as my priority. Trust me it matters to him. Just like he cannot ignore his parents, he cannot ignore me too.
He does not demand bullshit explanations. He trusts me like his blood. He also respects me for the fact that I had left my home for him. So, the least he would do is keep me comfortable.
Your wife is your partner and she is not supposed to agree everywhere. Just like other couples, we also keep fighting occasionally but would never cross that line of respect. Always remember to leave the room when you are angry, but never try to hit or abuse her because she is a woman. She would not throw it back.
What if she does? Just think about it. Men’s egos get hurt very easily. It would not survive long after that. So, just try to respect her, and if not GENTLE, just be a man for her.
I hope this justifies your question.
Love,
Kiara
