Getting lost in a bookstore, sometimes there is a cute guy who only talks to you about books but never offers you a cup of coffee. Or maybe you’ve known someone for a while and texting him frequently, but he hasn’t invited you out yet. If so, you should read this article. In anticipation of him asking you out, but at the same time, you don’t want to do everything yourself. It’s just a matter of creating a convincing pitch that makes him want to ask you out and ignite a romance.
Here are a few simple tricks that will catch his eye and entice him out for a date.
Trick #1: Ask him what is on his mind.
It would be wise to text him and find out whether he has anything planned for his next day off? It’s a great question to ask if you want to drop the hint that you’re interested in spending time with him. Also, discuss a few activities you two enjoy doing before asking this question. For instance, you could talk about going to the movies or shopping. If you do, he will be naturally inclined to ask you out.
Trick #2: Describe a place where you would like to go.
Let’s say you feel like visiting an amusement park. Check with him what he thinks of amusement parks. Giving him a list of things you’d like to do can make him imagine it is his mission to take you out. Try something that would catch his attention, such as “I haven’t done anything exciting for a while.”
Trick #3: Complain that you have too much free time!
It is my favorite trick, so you should give it a shot. You could send him a message saying, “I haven’t got much to do these days, so I’m feeling a little bored.” It is generally not possible for guys to leave a woman alone when she is feeling lonely. They tend to feel obligated to stay with her. But if you only complain about it in a text message, he will get angry, so choose the appropriate time in your conversation to bring it up.
Trick #4: Be shy, but show interest in his story.
If he tells you something he loves, you should always reply, “That sounds like an interesting location, but I’m not sure I can do it alone.”
If you show him you are timid about doing something by yourself, he will feel more comfortable showing you around and asking you out. You can adjust your response depending on what he says, such as, “I want a guide to making sure I see everything,” or “I’ll get bored on my own.”
Trick #5: Ask him about his daily routine.
For instance, “Where does he like to eat most often?”
There are almost no guys who dislike being asked about their hobbies and their day-to-day lives. It gives him the impression that you are interested in him. Be sure to ask about what he does on his days off. It will help you steer the conversation toward just going out.
Trick #6: Help tactic.
If there’s one thing a guy loves more than sharing his opinion, it’s helping a woman in need. You know, men are all rescuers at heart. It is a rare opportunity, and if you don’t seize it, you’re crazy.
Pick up the phone and let him know the thing you’d like to fix or the problem that might need a little tweaking. It doesn’t matter if it’s a slow drain in your bathtub or a computer sluggishly running slowly.
Just text him randomly like, “Hey, can you tell me how computers work?” He’s sure to help you with technology – so feel free to text him. Even if he is a knucklehead with mechanics, he will come to your house for the “diagnosis.”
So yeah, I hope you got the idea of how to call him up and have a little chat to get him to ask you out. Getting a date with a guy you’ve had your eye on can be as simple as “weaving” your way into his life. The only trick is to ensure that your life meshes with his, and he’ll be more inclined to explore romantic stuff with you.
