QUESTION
Hi Kiara,
I am getting married in a few weeks, so I want to add something special to my wedding. Could you please suggest a few world wedlock rituals that I can incorporate into my wedding?
Love,
Leila!
ANSWER
Hi Leila,
One of the most joyous and significant occasions is a wedding. Although the essence of any wedding remains the same, cultures vary greatly in their rituals and customs. So let’s explore some wedlock rituals from around the world that you can weave into your own ceremony.
Wedlock Rituals in the World
1. Hindu Wedding Ceremonies (India):
Hindu weddings are renowned for their elaborate rituals and vibrant festivities that span several days. The ‘Saptapadi’, or the seven steps taken around a sacred fire, symbolizes the couple’s journey through life together. In addition to the ‘Haldi’ ceremony, turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom’s skin before the ceremony to cleanse them and purify them.
2. Tea Ceremony (China):
Tea ceremonies are a symbol of respect and gratitude in Chinese culture. The bride and groom serve tea to their parents during the ceremony, which symbolizes the union of two families. Your wedding can get even more elegant and reverent if you have a tea ceremony.
3. Handfasting (Celtic Tradition):
A handfasting symbolizes the couple’s commitment and unity when their hands are bound together with ribbons or cords. As a symbol of the binding of two souls in love, this tradition has been practiced since medieval times. The handfasting ceremony can be personalized with meaningful vows and blessings from the couple.
4. Jumping on the Broom (African-American Tradition):
It is a symbol of sweeping away the old and welcoming the new that originated from African cultures and was later adopted by African-American communities. During the ceremony, the couple jumps over a broom together, symbolizing their entrance into a new phase of life. This tradition honors love, unity, and the strength to overcome obstacles.
5. Maori Haka (New Zealand):
It is a traditional dance performed by Maoris that expresses pride, unity, and emotion. As part of your wedding ceremony, you can incorporate a haka to acknowledge Maori heritage and involve the entire community in celebrating the couple’s love and commitment. The energetic movements and rhythmic chanting of the haka create a dynamic and unforgettable wedding experience.
So, I hope you like these rituals and you can include them in your ceremonies.
Love,
Kiara!
