QUESTION
Hi Kiara,
I want to know when my best friend should come first before my boyfriend.
Love,
Rochelle!
ANSWER
Hi Rochelle,
I know you’re smitten with your new boo, but don’t forget about your bestie. Here are a few situations when you should prioritize your friend over your boyfriend:
- When your friend is going through a difficult time. No matter if your friend is going through a breakup, a family crisis, or a personal issue, she needs your support and comfort more than ever. Don’t leave her behind for a date night or Netflix binge with your bae. Let her know you care and that she’s not alone.
- You need to be there to cheer your friend on and pop some champagne when she gets a promotion, graduates, or achieves a goal. Don’t let your boyfriend steal the spotlight or make you miss the fun. It is important to recognize and appreciate your friend for all she has accomplished.
- Don’t blow off your friend or make excuses because you’re too busy with your boyfriend. Sometimes your friend just wants to hang out with you and catch up on life. Perhaps she wants to go shopping, watch a movie, or have a spa day. Taking the time to nurture your friendship will be the best way to do so.
There you have it. The 3 times your best friend should take priority over your boyfriend. Obviously, this doesn’t mean you should ignore your partner’s needs or neglect your relationship. You just have to balance your priorities and make time for both. It’s true that a good boyfriend will understand and respect your friendship and a good friend will do the same.
Love,
Kiara!
