Hi Kiara!
This is Steffy from London. I am a big fan of yours and I keep reading your blogs.
Kiara, I know you give relationship advice very well. Hence, I wanted to ask you something. Well Steffy, I am the third party in a relationship. The person that I like has expressed the same feeling for me. However, the person does not know how to break up with the current relationship as the other partner is not willing to. Should I step in?
I would keep waiting for you to answer.
Love,
Steffy
Hi Steffy!
I really appreciate your kind sentiments, baby. I am pleased to be having an impact.
Well, to answer your question, how do you know the other partner isn’t ready to end the relationship? Are you certain that they are aware of the breakup?
I get the impression that the person you adore is unsure of where they want to put their allegiances and is using the justification of “not knowing how to break up” as an excuse. It’s easy to find a way to put an end to things if you truly want to. It’s also unacceptable to play pranks on others. If they are unable to do it, their attachment to the other partner may be larger than they realize, and if I were you, I would re-evaluate the relationship.
Do you truly want to be with someone who will continue to mistreat both you and someone else?
Love,
Kiara
