Hi Kiara!

               This is Jane. Tell me one thing, what is the unvarnished reality of relationships? I would be watching for your response.

Regards,

Jane

Hi Jane!

                 I understand where this is coming from. Well, this is what I have understood about relationships so far:

  1. In a relationship, the person who loves relatively less has the upper hand.
  2. In a relationship, the person who provides more tends to give more frequently. the one who, without understanding it, begins to take the other person for granted
  3. Avoid ignoring the warning signs. If you’re in a relationship where you’re always sad and sobbing, consider whether you’re dating a person or an onion.
  4. Nobody will love you exactly the way you want them to. Everyone has a unique heart and a unique view of what love is. What you are willing to do for someone out of love might be a big deal to them.
  5. Low expectations are the key to real happiness.
  6. If you want to be truly happy, keep your expectations low.
  7. Most of the time, people don’t appreciate your help until they lose it one day.
  8. It’s possible that someone only wants you now, not because they envisage a future with you. Recognize that a person has no right to lie next to you if they don’t think you are worthy enough to spend the rest of your life with.
  9. Avoid making yourself too accessible to anyone unless they are making an equal effort. You’re merely demonstrating your willingness to settle for less than you merit.
  10. When someone proves their identity to you, take them at their word.
  11. Someone who views you as an option shouldn’t be given priority. Time lost is time lost forever.

Thank you!

Kiara