Hi Kiara,

            I hope you are having an amazing month of February. And yes, wishing you a very happy birthday dear Kiara. I hope, I am not late in sending you my good wishes. Well, I was having an amazing conversation with a friend and he asked me how can one be more independent in a relationship.

I could not answer much on this. But will you please let me know how to be more independent in a relationship?

Regards,

Julie

Hi Julie,

           Thank you so much babe for your merry wishes. My birthday is in the coming week and you are not late at all. Well, whenever I think about emotional independence, it is a fantastic quality.

Last year, I discovered that I was not emotionally independent. My emotions we only as good as how I felt the guy I was tied to felt about me. Which was not a good thing, and would result in having a poor relationship. So, this is what I thought:

Two trees grow right next to each other. They hold their weight and can stand still with the support of each other. However, the trees are strong enough when they lean on each other. When the heavy winds blow, they lean on each other to gather strength but are not helpless.

And that is how our relationships work.

Love,

Kiara