QUESTION
Hi Kiara,
What are the best ways to make my boyfriend feel better during this time when he has a viral fever? It has already been two days since he got sick, and I cannot seem to put him at ease. While I want to keep a distance from him to avoid getting sick, I also want to be close to him. I’m just confused. Can you please help me with how to comfort him?
Love,
Sia!
ANSWER
Hi Sia,
Keeping distance from your spouse is necessary, but you should also remain their rock during sickness. The battle between caring for your sick partner while also keeping yourself healthy and handling your daily life tasks may seem overwhelming, but it is possible. Being there for your boyfriend while he is sick is the perfect opportunity for you to let him know how much you care for him. Here are a few tips to help your sick boyfriend feel better.
Stock up his medications.
Make sure you have a basic supply of OTC medication on hand. Buy the right kind of medicine for his symptoms at the drug store and take responsibility for this. He will feel soothed just by being with you.
Make sure there’s an easygoing, comfortable vibe.
Anyone who is sick knows how difficult it is. The more anxious you are about getting better, the worse things will get. Any effort you make to create a comfortable atmosphere will help him recover.
- Keep him hydrated with drinks
- Light a candle
- Give him a cuddle
- Play some soothing music
- Wrap him up in a cozy blanket
Make it a night in.
Organize a sick night at home. Watch some movies with him and let him choose. Watching something entertaining and spending time together is all you need, no pressure, no stress.
Give him a relaxing massage.
Think about how good it feels to get a massage from you when he’s healthy, then multiply it by a trillion when he’s all weak and tired. If your massage helps him fall asleep, then it is working. He’ll believe you have magical hands after the massage. You can also add some essential oil to the mix to make him feel even better.
Be empathic.
When your boyfriend is sick, you should know what to say to him. Though you don’t know everything he’s going through at the moment, do your best to show empathy. I often find that the act of speaking softly and lovingly can go a long way toward making a sick person feel better.
Make their day with their favorite things.
It may be difficult for them to eat much. So, bringing them their favorite food or drink is better than nothing. Provide them with a wide variety of foods to try, and don’t worry if some of them go to waste. This gesture will make them feel better, and they’ll know that their favorite foods are in the fridge waiting for them to get better.
Even if they get sick often, don’t stop doing all these things. Keep in mind that they didn’t choose this. Sickness is no one’s favorite!
So, go ahead, and give him all the attention he deserves by following the tips and ideas we’ve suggested to you.
Love,
Kiara!
