Having someone you love by your side is a blessing every day.
It’s incredible how commitment and being together can bring such comfort. And we all have seen how fickle and funny we become, but what happens when it gets stale? Boring? Does it sound too harsh?
You’re not the only one, we’ve all been there!
Compared to men, women have different needs. You don’t have to spend a lot of money or hassle to make a girl happy, especially if she loves you. The first step to making your girl proud is to understanding her feelings and experimenting with different options.
Keeping your girlfriend happy in her heart is as simple as doing these 10 things:
1. Have a conversation with her
Is it difficult for you to merely sit down and talk to someone? No matter what you are doing- watching television, eating dinner, or discussing work- any conversation is welcome. Don’t be afraid to tell her your thoughts and feelings. In this way, you will reduce any resentment, and your lady love will feel more at ease. Even if you think something might be hurtful if you told her, do so anyway.
In certain situations, staying silent only backfires. So make sure you’re in constant communication. Feel free to share how you dealt with your day at work or what food you ate that wasn’t to your liking. She will be excited upon hearing it from you.
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2. Show gratitude for her efforts
In relationships, appreciation is a significant factor. The most common mistake couples make is to forget to say thank you over time. You do not need to be formal in saying thank you. You can use it to show your woman how much you appreciate all the efforts she makes for you.
An unexpected hug after she has prepared an elaborate meal can make her smile for the rest of the day. You should make sure to contact her during your work schedule to let her know how much you appreciate her being there.
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3. Make her feel safe
You can make your girlfriend happy with your protective streak. By making your girlfriend feel safe around you, you can make a difference in her happiness. Once she feels secure around you, she will trust you, and she will naturally desire to be with you.
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4. Often surprise your girl
You might forget, but if you ask your girl, we’re sure she remembers every detail about the surprises you gave her in the early days of your relationship. How did things change? You don’t have to stop surprising her just because you’ve been with her for a while.
These small gestures can have a profound impact on a relationship. Don’t just give her materialistic gifts. Send her sweet and romantic messages as well. Give your woman words of love and watch her blush. To you, the happiness of your woman is more valuable than anything in the world. Do not forget to tell her how special she truly is, even if you have already done this.
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5. Treat her with respect
Respect means ensuring that each person has the right to make their own choices and feel safe in their relationship. Hence, make sure you’re the one who values her feelings and needs, talks honestly with her, builds her up, compromises, and supports her interests.
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6. Plan some fun activities
Amidst all of the hustle and bustle of modern-day life, it is essential to have fun together. Find out what each of you likes to do and give it a shot. You can explore new places together, know new things together, go on a memorable adventure together, or even achieve any goals you share.
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7. Accept her imperfections
When you love someone, you have to accept their flaws. Be that guy who adores her no-makeup face, who embraces all of her irrationalities, and who enjoys everything she says.
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8. Love the things and people that are important to her
Take the time to learn what is important to her. If she loves to read books in a coffee shop, go with her. Take the time to know her longtime friends as well, because aside from you, her friends are also what makes her happy.
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9. Make her feel proud in public
Show your affection to the rest of the world – don’t keep it to private moments. While you are in public, massage her hand or kiss her cheek. When introducing her to a friend, hold her close. Share your relationship publicly on social media if she uses it a lot. Make sure you post pictures of the two of you and tag her at places. Your public commitment to the relationship will demonstrate your pride in her.
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10. Get to know her personality
Understanding her interests and dislikes is a big step towards making her feel special. Often, guys only care about having a physical relationship with girls and never bother getting to know them. Make sure you don’t be a guy who doesn’t know what his girlfriend likes or dislikes.
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Finally, make sure she’s treated the way she deserves. Your girlfriend will be proud of you, I’m sure. It’s that simple! I hope this will be helpful to all the men out there who want to keep their girlfriends happy. Every woman deserves a man who will fill her heart with happiness, peace, and pleasure. At least for now, go and hug her and tell her how much you care.